so i finally gave in today and bought my first maternity bra. WHY MUST THEY BE SO VERY UNATTRACTIVE?!?!? it’s not fair. you go from this cute body with these cute boobs to a changing body, which i’ve been cool with so far….. but the boobs are getting big…. ugly big, which i was warned about, but DANG! i talked it over with my good friend who is also pregnant and bless her, bought a maternity bra in a size E. she is my rock star. today as i’m getting dressed and putting on my bra that has done me no wrong, but is getting quite snug, i finally submit. i go to the store and ask the saleswoman where the maternity bras are…. (enter the feeling of shame and hopelessness)…. they’re ugly, all of them. one would think that one would create a cheerful looking, possibly colorful (god forbid) bra for those of us struggling to give up our cute, attractive bras. i would have LOVED to have walked in, asked for the maternity bra section, walked over and taken a peek at these bras that just say “hey, i’m cute, and i’ll make you feel better about your crazy-large boobs! buy me!” but noooooo, instead you have white or nude, thick straps, lame embroidery, and saleswomen looking at you with a shit-eating grin on their face. (excuse me, but yes, i’m irritated and hormonal at the moment). is the ugly bra comfortable? of course. do i feel better physically with my crazy-large boobs? totally. but would i throw the bra away in a minute simply due to how hideous it is? WITHOUT A DOUBT! i’m totally down with my changing body. i am in love with my bump, totally sporting my regular clothes and jeans (thanks to low-rise), and feeling really great in this second trimester…. however, my spirit has been slightly shaken today with the purchase of the ugly bra. with that being said dear friends, i leave you hoping that my little vent put a smile on your face or gave you a giggle. ~