The Must-Have Mom Manual

good monday morning readers… i interrupt your regularly scheduled quirky, insane, occasionally inebriated posts and magoo updates for a book review that will take place this entire week.
get stoked! cuz i am!
your’s truly, as well as 5 other incredibly fantastic blogging moms were asked to collaborate on a book review. the book itself is a collaboration (written and compiled by two friends), and thus the reason why i said “yes” to this project.
i dig group-efforts… multiple minds… the sharing of insight… and insanity. kinda makes me feel like i’m not alone in this crazy hood that is motherhood.
the brilliance behind this cooperative effort comes from none other than heather eigler and you can find more of her creative genius at her website, maternalspark.com
and yes, there is a giveaway in this co-op of our’s… THE BOOK!

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NOW ON WITH THE SHOW….
authors sara ellington and stephanie triplett (sorry, i giggle when i hear her last name, even though she does not have triplets) compiled stories, perspectives, and share their brutal honesty in this (their second) book, The Must-Have Mom Manual.
i’m not big on mom-manuals, and i feel like i need to let that be known from the get-go. in the 15+ months that i have been a mother, i have learned that there is no thing and no child who is “normal.” i have also learned that one should never, ever, under any circumstances use the phrase “supposed to” when discussing motherhood or parenting.
(should you use this phrase in my presence, expect a quick swift junk-punch, if you’re a dude… and a purple nurple, if you’re a chick.)
with that being said, i found TMHMM to be surprisingly refreshing. perhaps this is due to the fact that both stephanie and sara wrote this purposely from their two very different perspectives, offering insight from both the nursing mother who went back to work, and the bottle-feeding mother who stayed at home. different women, different moms, different views… no preaching, and more importantly (to me) no judgment.
opening with a small guide on “how to use” the book, sara and stephanie introduce themselves and then take the time to talk about each other, which as a woman, i can appreciate… cuz we all talk about each other (admit it bitches.) this instantly made me feel as though i could hang with these two women and share a bottle of wine with them.
the tone is immediately hysterical, entirely honest, and both stephanie and sara gained my trust and respect within minutes of reading the intro… me personally, i relate more to sara (reason to be revealed this week, stay tuned) but totally dig both chicks.
for example, on page 14 (hardly into the meat of the book) in reference to having a c-section, “Stephanie always says, ‘They don’t hand out trophies in the delivery room.’” my response to that, as a c-section mom… word! your baby is your trophy.
instinctually i took a peak at this book, that sat on my desk for 2 weeks before i picked it up, and did not like the word “manual” on the front cover. it turned me off. just that word. so far, that’s my only gripe.
but… this is a Must-Have… that is for sure. just wish i had it about a year and a half ago… if not two years ago.
stay tuned this week… there’s plenty that i will be discussing regarding this book (tomorrow it’s all about the bewbies…) and of course, make sure you check in with the mother-ship of this project…
so with that, i encourage you to click on over to AJ and check out her nutty input at her site.










OMG, I so need the organization chapter!! Three kids and I just can’t seem to keep anything organized. And sex? Forget it! 2yo has excellent sexdar. Problems? The Birth Order chapter could use age gap addition. My oldest was an only child for 13 years, then the middle child came along and 22 months later the baby.
I’d head to the discipline chapter first. That’s our biggest challenge right now with our 3 y/o (aside from EATING). Thanks for the chance to enter!
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Awesome write-up, m’dear…I’m looking forward to the rest of it
I am very, very interested to read the information on Friends & Family as caregivers. That, and the Postpartum Depression chapter. First, though, I’d need to read the discipline chapter, because that’s where we are having trouble now.
Ok, so actually, I want to read the entire book. Where can I buy it?
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I need chapter 7 about leaving my career- just transitioning to being a SAHM after the birth of my second child, and am struggling with that.
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I will probably need the tips for new dads chapter!
I love what I saw in the Food and Kids chapter. Chloe is just starting to eat solids (well, stage 2 and up) and we feed her only organics. I’d like to get more info on healthy eating for her!
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I was re reading the list of chapters and I am also interested in what the Dads bringing up Daughters chapter has to say. It doesn’t really elaborate much about whether it talks about activities or talks or bonding or all of that. I would be interested to see what these brilliant ladies have to say about Dads and their daughters.
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Chapter 14: Going Out to a Restaurant with your Baby or Child looks very interesting to me. I have seen so many children go a little berzerk at a restaurant and I want to make sure I am prepared when I go out with my little one!
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Wow. I just blew my own mind when I realized I will be needing the chapter on “potty training” before I know it. Yikes.
Discipline, for sure.